Player Mode

T-Oakland told me I'm in full player mode, this was after our second date at Yoshi's this weekend. I think he's right. I've been fortunate to have met several guys who have their 'light on'. This is the guy who's tired of the bachelor life and is seeking to settle down. The irony is that the ones I met are both 34, Latino and under 5'9, lol. I think the shorter guys just have a harder time in the dating world.

I-Oakland (I'm loving meeting the Oakland boyz). We met at an art gallery dancing to old skool hip hop http://www.111minnagallery.com. Playing the shy brother, but he bought us tickets to Erika Badu and the Roots http://http://www.paramounttheatre.com/nojsched.html#6_8. I take it he likes music, me too. The party scene is way too small though, I ran into him again last Friday while I was out with the Indian boyz at Vessel http://www.vesselsf.com. I gotta watch it!

Still dating at least two of the others, one is moving into the friend zone. I'm done with the Asian persuasion, the cultural similarities are there but the differences are too great where it counts. I like folks who are outgoing, warm, affectionate and passionate, it never really surfaces with guys with that background. I really missed being with Latinos.