The first dud

Saturday I found myself driving to San Jose to meet D- after the 20 minutes of obligatory nice to meet you conversation at Applebees I was out the door and on my way to retail therapy. Nothing like buying a new pair of stilettos to shrug off a dud. Guys, here's some friendly advice- first, post a recent picture of yourself on your profile. Don't waste my time with a small picture of yourself from far away that was taken 10 years ago when you still looked good and weighed 20 pounds less. Second, on a first date- NEVER let her pay- it makes you look like a cheap bastard!